because if your "true tribe" is on one level and you're afraid to go there . . . the level below won't accept you, any way (as they will see you either as an "imposter" or "damaged goods", or both)
and will attack you for "lying" to them
you have to have to HAVE TO own your power and your core "truth" -- because it you don't step up to who you "are"
you will be "attacked" all your life
because your (current) tribe "doesn't believe (in) you"