In relationships, you "tell" people how to "treat you"

sometimes this is a conscious choice, but typically it is an unconsious declaration

everybody's "the same" until you wake up

. . . then the different "kind of relationship"

you "say" you want will just . . . poof

appear

some people "postpone love" -- not because they don't want it

but instead because they are (whether they realize it consciously or not)

. . . raising "their vibration"

so when they do allow love, again, into their life, they do so from a position of balance

as opposed to a position of "lack"

and therefore sky-rocket the likelihood of finding (since they now are a closer match) a partner who supports them

rather than de-rails them

which will only set you back even further in finding one who is both supportive and in "alignment"

your partner reflects back who you tell them you are

if you don't feel good about yourself, why should they ??

truth -- often a painful truth

but still . . . the truth nonetheless

Past Life "memories" are not stored in "the brain" -- just as consciousness is not fully stored within the brain

it is an external impulse -- analagous to a flashing light

that is perceived, much like an encrypted credit card purchase online . . . and reassembled by various mechanisms that ARE within the brain

conscousness is external -- the coding for taking the encrypted stimuli IS, though, housed within the brain

which is why many assume conscousness is "based there"

but the memory itself is external . . . and to tap into these memories

you can't "use your mind"

My opinion -- psychic ability, especially "Remote Viewing" (something I happen to be pretty good at)

is not facilitated through thinking or seeing

it is immersion, kind of like falling into a pile of feathers

you can't go there -- it is an echo and you wait for the echo

the intention "bounces", the echo returns

without the patience to get it on the second beat, you miss the song

you can't "force" yourself to be "calm" . . . you "align" with a state of calmness

you can't "think an erection" . . . it happens on its terms, not when you consciously try to force it

psychic ability is not a conscious act . . . it is passive

but it can only come when the path for it to show up has already been cleared

the same with being calm or being sexually aroused

don't think . . . clear a path within your mind

so that Nature can do its thing

you can't leave boulders on your path and expect someone to choose to follow

you can't clutter your mind and think the clutter won't "interfere"

there is a reason I say "you don't train young psychics, you help them de-clutter"

it all works when you are in the right space

the problem -- too many people are told how to decorate

and so they see the furniture and not the space

I have watched his acceptance speech this morning at least 5 times; what a beautiful young man and what a truly moving testimony as he accepted his Oscar for Adapted Screenplay

for a film about another beautiful young man who in spite of his brilliance was tormented for "being different"

one of the beauties of Hollywood and movies and "movie people"

is that they really are "different"

in the best way possible (most of the time)

there is a magic to films and a magic to working on a film that is hard to describe -- even in my very limited time there, I have worked on a dozen films and a multi-million dollar TV infomercial

and have set in control booths and been "on camera" and watched the wheels "turn"

and in addition to my work as an actor -- as a psychic, I have talked to hundreds more professional actors, directors, and film makers

making films is an act of magic but it is a collaborative act -- no one on a TV or film set can deny the necessity of having so many creative people come together

many artists gravitate towards their ART without benefit of a perfect "upbringing"; no legacy from which to draw

no scholarship to Julliard no one telling them they can "do this"

and most artists who "pursue" their ART do so with the very real message thrust in their face "who are you ?? what makes YOU think you can do THIS ??"

also, people who march to their own beat -- whether they look different than "the norm" or maybe they like boys when they "should" like girls or versa vice

or they play music instead of basketball or connect with, what to others, may seem "unusual" -- like past lives and astrology !!!

to all the OTHER weird folks who have contemplated (as I most certainly have) ending their lives, remember, please

good things can happen and there are many of us here who will GET YOU

and get what you're going through

thank you, Graham, for giving voice to all of us "weird ones" -- we know our tribe and we salute you for being one of us

what I see, over and over and OVER, is how often women hold themselves back from stepping into their true power

I am not talking financial power-- I am talking "ALIGNMENT POWER"

and with all the pervasive messages designed to hold them down, it makes sense that many women succumb to this

so often (and I certainly have been guilty of this, too)

we (and yes, I'm girly too but somehow "all boy" at the same) let others talk us out of who we are

and so we accept love that is less than we deserve

because it is all we think we should have

even if that "optimal partner" isn't there right now, by allowing your light to shine

BRIGHT

and stepping into a space in which you acknowledge who you are and are OK with it

by doing that

you "magnetize" a better world

because you are more "in harmony" with it

believe in yourself, allow yourself to ROCK

because trust me, if you don't do it

no one is going to be sad

except you

but you will be sad a LOT

own it, be it . . . align with it

no one else's vision -- YOUR vision

your truth

is the truth