What You Say and How You Say it

In relationships, you "tell" people how to "treat you"

sometimes this is a conscious choice, but typically it is an unconsious declaration

everybody's "the same" until you wake up

. . . then the different "kind of relationship"

you "say" you want will just . . . poof

appear

your attitudes about yourself are ultimately neon

it is this attitude that "leads" the partner to behave in a certain way

what you "believe" about yourself

grounded in your self-worth or lack thereof

drives how you act -- which is a driver, too

in revealing to your partner how you should be treated

in return

 . . . so, basically, until you change how you see yourself

all your relationships will follow a "pattern"

patterns are unconscious

those who sleep miss breakfast