one of the great tragedies, among many, for women who have been sexually abused is the cognitive assault they undergo, "after the fact"

by those who have abused them, or enabled in some way the abuser

saying, in essence, that what happened "didn't happen that way"

this is done in an attempt to deflect guilt . . . typically causing the victim to question his or her own eyes moving forward; this is especially problematic for children whose cognitive frameworks are not fully formed

same thing holds true with rapists who blame the one they rape for "inciting the action"

all a means of transference

and that transference is accomplished, in large part, by trying to discredit the witness (so to speak)

which is ultimately a "plan" to raise the value of the original abuser by working to push down the "value" (and credibility) of "the abused"
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#meToo

The way I gauge past life connections is not via hypnotic regression — because as a clairvoyant I can come up with significant and verifiable past life imagery so we can never be sure what we’re tapping into

But, instead, through common recurring elements such as facial structure, body type, mannerisms, skill sets, etc

To me, these “building blocks” repeat

And these repetitions, when seen in conjunction with Astrological synastry and karmic “resonance” (places, objects, tastes)

Are the “signs”

Of karmic interconnectedness
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Across lifetimes

a little bit more (tiny slice) of my my theory about past lives

to me, people fall within 4 primary buckets

one, probably about 95 % of all people, go one after another, nothing more nothing less and I have that group broken down into "themes" that deal with chakra "drivers"

the next group I call the 1 + 1's . . . basically, one with "a trailer"

this group goes fast and furious and may actually overlap one another by -- my "guess" . . . up to around 3 1/2 years, either direction

then there are splits

and lastly, binary splits . . . where the splits "split"

each group breakdown will share similar "styles"; in my book (to be) all this is outlined in much greater detail

so . . . in my theory it is possible people "are connected" even if their birth and death dates overlap

they would have to have VERY tight astrology with one another, because this (to me) is the final frontier

as well as lots of other similarities, including physical -- think DNA

you can tell he's a Brewer even though he doesn't look exactly like any of the others; that Brewer "something" is "visible"

tight Astrological matches would NOT, though, mean people are karmically connected

but if it wasn't there, it would mean they were NOT connected
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. . . anyway, a tiny bit about how I think it "works"

the odds of me blurting out a heartfelt "Namaste" or "love and light !!" have got to be close to zero

while the probability of me saying "what the everlovin' fuck !!"

pretty fuckn high; Spirituality is expressed not in slogans but in action and the action that perhaps reflects your spirituality most

is the action you take and the kindness you express

to those who are struggling

and who may feel down in the dumps; I am not a good psychic for millionaires but I am pretty good for those who are most in need

from a career standpoint, I should change my focus and throw down a couple of extra "Namastes"

and make sure not to add "mother fucker" at the end of it; oops

Psychic World is an interesting place

kindness matters
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and it isn't always visible in words

You predict the future by examining the past

planted seeds bloom; so to change the future you must change the past
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translated: a seed grows into whatever is implicit within the seed; to change the growth you must alter the seed or the manner in which the seed is nourished