. . . and not a minute before
Fate, God, spiritual "evolution", Angelic or Divine "visions"
all these things have a time line, like a little ball dropped from God that starts the mouse trap rolling
you can't push the river . . . but you can keep walking along the riverside searching for the best place to catch the "flow"
that you can do . . . and, perhaps, that search for the spot along the shore to sit is good enough
because if you sit in the right place, with the right attitude and level of awareness, the river will flow to you
and bring you what you need, even if you didn't know (or couldn't possibly have imagined)
that "thing you need" was dropped in the river long ago, just floating along
heading towards where you're sitting