if deep down (or maybe not so deep down) you have "absorbed" the message that you can only have X, Y, or Z if you do Q+V squared
and you aren't "good enough" to BE Q+V squared
then all will fall to pieces, nothing (long-term) will (or can) work
because the seeds of undoing are being watered non-stop and the seeds of possibility are being strangled by weeds
the law BEHIND the "Law of Attraction"