know that in most cases -- looked at from a "past life perspective" (and I actually feel "qualified" to look at things in this way)
what is happening is usually designed to help you
what I have sometimes called "The Big Bang Theory of Enlightenment"
what is taken from you, eventually, leads to a greater return
a fuller cup, with a heart more "conditioned" (even if this conditioning may have included some element of pain) to receive
therefore, the "gift" -- when it shows up
is usually not only greater
but fills your heart in ways in which it could not previously
there is a beauty to the evolution
trust, therfore, is your primary key to happiness