and why can't we find the ones who ARE rewards and sleep through the ones who are pop quizzes?
I am going to give my "answer" to this question
. . . anyone who shows up in your world for whom you have a strong emotional "reaction" -- one who serves as a catalyst for you to "do something"
in Andyland qualifies as a "soul mate" -- these can be working partners, neighbors, teachers, etc . . . as well, of course, as romantic partners
not all romantic partners are soul mates -- since not all interactions move the needle on your emotional "dial"
and not all soul mates are romantic partners
soul mates have a strong vibratory pattern that shows up as I "read you" and (in my opinion) they are fairly easy to see "energetically"
there is a wave line that you can see/feel corresponding to your energetic "signature"
but every once in a while -- and I don't think we get too many of these (some get 0, some get 1, some may get 3 or 4 but probably no more)
you will see someone show up in your world who, when overlaid with your energy "signature"
shows up as TWO WAVES . . . one is a harmonic hum, one is a high vibratory buzz
meaning that the experience is both calming and exciting AT THE SAME TIME !!
the "rewards" will always show up energetically with this "harmonic"
you are calm as a cucumber, yet simultaneously on FIRE
and this duality will register in your auric field
if you have to think about it too much, typically they will fall into the pop quiz folder
the "twin flame" type of soul mates we all look for (and yes, we all do look for them) show up (if and when)
with this level of calm certainty
you may have questions but those are usually reflections of "learned fears"
that is your brain, but your "aura" KNOWS
and this relationship will show up as this dual wave function . . . and 99 times out of 100, it is very recognizable
and, as a clairvoyant, that is how I "know" which is which