in English -- whenever I have listened to people and acted the way "I'm supposed to" (uh huh) things are always bad
whenever I am zen and trust my own instincts and just go -- yeah I "hear" this is bad but I am going to do it anyway
I am popular as fuck and women like me
moral -- never listen to advice if the advice is to act some "proscribed way"
if that "way" isn't who you really are
I get talked into "changing" when the change is not really what works; I am sure this happens to you, too
don't do it hahahaha . . . be yourself and OWN IT
those who get you will line up and those who don't will shut the door . . . better to get the right people in the right place
. . . this was initially written in reference to online personas
as a psychic who is political and says "fuck" and doesn't say "love and light" 40 times a day
and also talked about his Depression or confusion or whatever
people told me this would kill my career but I did it anyway because I felt it in alignment with who I actually "am"
as far as relationships, especially romantic relationships
if people say you have to be XY or Z or no one "will love you"
and you're QF13
then you either own being a QF13 or try to be a Z and make everyone miserable
. . . this is not strictly about romantic relationships, either
but applies in any situation in which it is important for two people to be "on the same page" with one another
so, in theory, is appropriate for business relationships and parental/child relationships, too