. . . who would NEVER make it so that you had to win their approval, in the first place, if they were already secure within themselves (think about THAT for a second)
and realize that this interpersonal dynamic is a reflection of THEIR insecurities and is rooted in a conditional acceptance of themselves
when you stop doing that -- or at least slow it down a whole lot
not only will your life CHANGE, but suddenly your status in their eyes will skyrocket at the same time