relationships are about honesty

relationships are about honesty -- even if that honesty is not what you're supposed to be "honest about"

in English -- whenever I have listened to people and acted the way "I'm supposed to" (uh huh) things are always bad

whenever I am zen and trust my own instincts and just go -- yeah I "hear" this is bad but I am going to do it anyway

I am popular as fuck and women like me

moral -- never listen to advice if the advice is to act some "proscribed way"

if that "way" isn't who you really are

I get talked into "changing" when the change is not really what works; I am sure this happens to you, too

don't do it hahahaha . . . be yourself and OWN IT

those who get you will line up and those who don't will shut the door . . . better to get the right people in the right place
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