change can happen within weeks -- after decades of dysfunction
how? by deciding the dysfunction isn't "true"
the brain has a "command", like a computer
when you "understand" the limit is not "legit" then the truth will show up
and the CTRL ALT DEL keys to Prosperity or Happiness or Emotional Balance, whatever command was planted in your "hard drive"
won't be pushed any more -- since you won't allow the "pusher" near the keypad
change can happen very quickly
you don't put a new command in, you stop allowing the old command to be "keyed"
in the "representation" is it LEGIT for the child to feel bad about her/himself?
if not, then why do we in the same situation
stop owning the "transference" -- because that is WHAT IT IS
and change can happen
sometimes super fast