. . . for those of you who believe in complete "free will", I am sorry but that is not how I see things
my experience (as a psychic and astrologer primarily) has led me to the conclusion that things are meant to unroll within fairly narrow guidelines
events are "pre-loaded" (in my opinion) just as people -- and the "experiences" resulting from meeting those people
are pre-loaded, as well
soul mates, soul groups -- they "pre-exist" this particular lifetime
and meeting, and interacting, with your "group" is part of God's "plan"
as such, the ways in which these meetings can (and will) "take place" is also
pre-loaded, too