will put you into the same orbit with others who are like you
which will make your day to day life a whole lot more "satisfying"
find yourself to find your tribe; find your tribe to find your happiness
there is no growth without other people (doesn't matter if they are right in front of you, or not . . . 'cause they're ALREADY in your head !!) -- so whether you choose to grow, primarily, through pain or through joy
is up to you
and this pain/joy ratio is in direct proportion to "tribe"/non-tribe "mechanics"
do a job because your parents "suggested it" and hang with people you can barely tolerate or say "no mas" and do what you want
if you have less money -- and you are with your "peeps"
then does it really matter? you are probably similar to one another
and that isn't such a terrible thing
most problems, I believe, are because you hang with people with whom you don't "vibe"
fix THIS -- and your life will change