I look at past relationships, and perhaps you should, too
in much the same way Edison looked at his effort to create the light bulb
“I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work.”
― Thomas Edison
an optimist . . . and, on top of that, after seeing how it DIDN'T work
guess what . . . the light bulb, literally, goes off
he didn't give up, he kept his faith and . . .
voila, you / I / we NOW