relationships with friends OR lovers are best served when you (a) know what you want and (b) have enough confidence in yourself to believe you are worthy to receive it
but the caveat / entry fee for receiving is to know yourself well enough
to know that "what you want"
comes from within you
. . . and wasn't planted as an idea by someone else
until you know what you want -- and go about consciously making it happen
relationships will be wishy-washy far more often than not
as you are then looking for the relationship to define your "reaction" rather than having your intention (grounded in actual "self-awareness")
drive the dynamics of how you interact and get along
that "letting the relationship drive" mentality is the mind-set of the "co-dependent"
always a bad place to be
. . . you have to be "in the moment" and not lost in space
ultimately, strong relationships are built on strong partners
who know themselves
but the caveat / entry fee for receiving is to know yourself well enough
to know that "what you want"
comes from within you
. . . and wasn't planted as an idea by someone else
until you know what you want -- and go about consciously making it happen
relationships will be wishy-washy far more often than not
as you are then looking for the relationship to define your "reaction" rather than having your intention (grounded in actual "self-awareness")
drive the dynamics of how you interact and get along
that "letting the relationship drive" mentality is the mind-set of the "co-dependent"
always a bad place to be
. . . you have to be "in the moment" and not lost in space
ultimately, strong relationships are built on strong partners
who know themselves
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