Fresh Soil

I have a conversation pretty much every day with a woman somewhere in the world who has been "taught" to turn her power meter down

and, as a result, has forgotten exactly how to turn it back "up"

of course, this is by design and I think "men" are the ones doing the designing

ultimately, for men and women both it comes down to finding something within themselves they can "fall in love" with

until they see themselves as "worthy", nothing will go as planned

nothing

because the seeds of "undoing" are already planted deep within the subconscious

how to change this?

I always believe it comes down to "root cause" and my "methods" for finding that root cause include looking at "who" planted the seed(s) in the first place

and examining, literally, if what they said "was the truth"

if not -- then why did they say it?

through this process, one can begin connecting the dots and if your self-esteem is grounded in an attitude "given to you" that truly has nothing to do with YOU

and everything to do with THE GIVER

then it is possible to make a conscious evaluation and say "maybe this way of seeing myself isn't TRUE"

and, if not, then I am beating myself up for nothing, basically

we can regain our power but, first, we must regain our love for ourself