find the space within

I often talk about people being on the same wave length . . . and go even further in saying this is a literal thing, something you could almost chart out on an oscilloscope

sometimes this vibration is one of harmony, sometimes it's a fuzzy collision waiting to happen . . . but there is a sameness to the pattern

and it is this "sameness" that determines both the "attraction" and the direction

let's talk about L - O - V - E for a second

many people start out from a space of anger -- my ex-husband did this, my ex-wife did that . . . things happen to me ALL THE TIME, women are gold diggers men are evil everybody always wants something etc

a negative "vibe" driving the train to wherever it is "aiming" to go

and as long as that is the fuel driving the train, and the consciousness keeping it on the "track"

then the odds are super high

that things are going to be same ole same ole one more time

there is no judgment; we all go through whatever trials and experiences we go through

but, making a long story not so long . . . when you have this vibratory pattern as the foundation

then you are in sync with others holding the "same vibration"

you "resonate with DISharmony"

and to change the natural affinity for disharmony (and the probability of a disharmonious future), you must do "the work"

to understand what "happened"

and make "the choice" that the part in which you played to align with disharmony

because you are part of it now

you're simply not going to play ANYMORE

you must choose to stop this from moving forward; YOU have to stop it

because, quite simply, if you don't the thing you run from is the signal you beam out and what you are running from is actually waiting in the next town, anxiously waiting your arrival

you can change you can you can honest to God you can

but you must "see" that the vibration you share most is the thing that "determines" what you get and who you "attract"

to change your world, change the soundtrack

and if the voices singing the songs you hear most kinda suck . . . then you need to find a new singer

change what (and especially WHO) you listen to -- change who you "allow" to tell you who you "are"

and find "the power" (and it is there, waiting for you to turn it ON) to resonate at a higher level

surround yourself with negative complainers well you'll soon have plenty MORE to complain "about"
truth

find the space within

it's there . . . but you have to "align" with the energy of it

rather than demand it align with (and change) YOU

we all understand how things can get out of whack; I have been there myself for far too long

many years wasted not understanding my own "negative pattern(s)"

but until you change and own your piece in what needs "changing"

it will always be the same

change the vision within and what you end up with changes as well
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there is no other way