sometimes this vibration is one of harmony, sometimes it's a fuzzy collision waiting to happen . . . but there is a sameness to the pattern
and it is this "sameness" that determines both the "attraction" and the direction
let's talk about L - O - V - E for a second
many people start out from a space of anger -- my ex-husband did this, my ex-wife did that . . . things happen to me ALL THE TIME, women are gold diggers men are evil everybody always wants something etc
a negative "vibe" driving the train to wherever it is "aiming" to go
and as long as that is the fuel driving the train, and the consciousness keeping it on the "track"
then the odds are super high
that things are going to be same ole same ole one more time
there is no judgment; we all go through whatever trials and experiences we go through
but, making a long story not so long . . . when you have this vibratory pattern as the foundation
then you are in sync with others holding the "same vibration"
you "resonate with DISharmony"
and to change the natural affinity for disharmony (and the probability of a disharmonious future), you must do "the work"
to understand what "happened"
and make "the choice" that the part in which you played to align with disharmony
because you are part of it now
you're simply not going to play ANYMORE
you must choose to stop this from moving forward; YOU have to stop it
because, quite simply, if you don't the thing you run from is the signal you beam out and what you are running from is actually waiting in the next town, anxiously waiting your arrival
you can change you can you can honest to God you can
but you must "see" that the vibration you share most is the thing that "determines" what you get and who you "attract"
to change your world, change the soundtrack
and if the voices singing the songs you hear most kinda suck . . . then you need to find a new singer
change what (and especially WHO) you listen to -- change who you "allow" to tell you who you "are"
and find "the power" (and it is there, waiting for you to turn it ON) to resonate at a higher level
surround yourself with negative complainers well you'll soon have plenty MORE to complain "about"
find the space within
it's there . . . but you have to "align" with the energy of it
rather than demand it align with (and change) YOU
we all understand how things can get out of whack; I have been there myself for far too long
many years wasted not understanding my own "negative pattern(s)"
but until you change and own your piece in what needs "changing"
it will always be the same
change the vision within and what you end up with changes as well
there is no other way