I realize this sounds obvious, but it is not
and a profound but simple truth is buried within . . . to stop blocking these "things" you need to (a) identify (as much as possible) what they are
and (b) decide you are OK with meaningful change "happening"
because, truth be told, most people are afraid of change which is the cruelest irony since they come to psychics, if they come . . . to find out what is going to be different in "the future"
but if you don't examine both (a) and (b) above, the truthful answer is