they won't compromise the truth of what they see
this is why I (and so many other "black sheep") run afoul of narcissists and gaslighters and why I have had some public kabangs with groups who wanted me to #say green was red -- when I could see it was fuckn green straight off
black sheep are witnesses
and in a dysfunctional world, the dysfunctional want, more than anything
to silence
the witness(es) to their dysfunction