be love FIRST

. . . in helping someone get in touch with their sexual "core", you also help them re-awaken a greater sense of who they ARE

but, truth is . . . you cannot really love anyone else until you first love yourself

because, until that happens, you will be looking for them to PROVE to you that you DESERVE to be loved

this is a recipe for disaster; love is not something you find

it is something with which you ALIGN

be love FIRST . . . the rest will follow, soon enough