I am not a woman but I was the #father for three abortions, so I am part of this and have an abortion #history
each time this was the choice of the mother -- since she is the one who would have to carry the baby to term, to me, she has a deciding vote; I would have gone along with whatever the mother decided -- either way
I have been part of 5 pregnancies in my life -- each pregnancy happened when I was unmarried . . . I have one child; she is 27, and I married her mother before she was born
three children were aborted and one baby was stillborn; I was present with the mother for the first two abortions and only found out later about the third :(
once the baby is delivered, to me it is 50/50 and being the mother doesn't give someone a deciding vote in caring for the child or making decisions moving forward. . . however, until the child is delivered, the mother (to me) IS the deciding vote
this is as it should have been (then and how it should also be today); all terminations of pregnancy happened in the 1980's, two when I was in my 20's, one in my early 30's