we have 9 million reasons to find fault with ourselves and ten million people more than willing to step up and remind you
but the key to it all is found in loving yourself and finding that spark of God . . . follow it; all good things will come to you just out of that "quest"
don't let the nay-sayers take you away from that, either . . . it is a birth right, YOUR birthright -- but it is still one hidden in the dirt. You must clear off the dirt to find it
but, for me, I didn't set out to "be a psychic" nor did I really care. I wanted "God" and I was willing to go anywhere, do anything to find Her
anything . . . and if something matters that much, eventually you will find it