or "just give up and surrender" . . . I really dislike this term and the attitude it "suggests"
personally, I am not "surrendering" to anything or anybody
I want to be "in alignment" with whatever higher power / source one might connect with, or to . . . I want to join forces
be "in sync", sympatico
but "surrendering"? NO, I am not doing that
to surrender means I was once "at war"; I am not at war, I am on "a trip"
and even though I am riding along on a road on which they seemed to neglect to put up mile markers or road signs hahaha, still it is a "trip I chose"
I don't surrender to the highway, I ride ALONG ON the highway
to surrender means the force is both (a) outside me and (b) greater than me -- oh you're bigger, I give up
but neither is true -- the source is IN me, AROUND me, AND ABOVE me . . . all at once; there is NO separation, therefore surrender is not really "possible"
. . . quantum physics knows what I am saying
as does every mystic on a mountain top or sitting in a cave
ALIGNMENT = YES
SURRENDER = NO