. . . for those of you who believe in complete "free will", I am sorry but that is not how I see things
my experience (as a psychic and astrologer primarily) has led me to the conclusion that things are meant to unroll within fairly narrow guidelines
events are "pre-loaded" (in my opinion) just as people -- and the "experiences" resulting from meeting those people
are pre-loaded, as well
soul mates, soul groups -- they "pre-exist" this particular lifetime
and meeting, and interacting, with your "group" is part of God's "plan"
as such, the ways in which these meetings can (and will) "take place" is also