but instead because they are (whether they realize it consciously or not)
. . . raising "their vibration"
so when they do allow love, again, into their life, they do so from a position of balance
as opposed to a position of "lack"
and therefore sky-rocket the likelihood of finding (since they now are a closer match) a partner who supports them
rather than de-rails them
which will only set you back even further in finding one who is both supportive and in "alignment"
your partner reflects back who you tell them you are
if you don't feel good about yourself, why should they ??
truth -- often a painful truth
but still . . . the truth nonetheless