I have complained and been pissed about my mother putting the clamps on me and being super over-protective when all I wanted to do was run and be free to push my envelopes when I felt they needed to be pushed
and no doubt her "influence" disrupted my life and "kept me" from having things and experiences that might normally have been mine
but in "auditing" my past life "profile", it seems pretty clear that without a really fim hand to slow me down I would have followed my "natural instincts"
and been off racing cars, getting in fights, "collecting" women, etc
being "forced" to go slow now seems like a blessing, as I developed some amazing talents over the years that probably would never have develped as they had
if my main focus had been driving cars 150 mph or being the wildest wild child possible
in this case, I had to have been locked down
and now I understand "why"