you ALIGN with the state of being in which that "thing" CAN happen
a subtle, but powerful shift
this holds true for love, as well -- if you are not in alignment with those attitudes that support love: trust, self-respect, caring, genuine affection and passion
then no love can find you
there is no point looking for it outside yourself -- the change happens within you
this is the only place from which true lasting change can originate
there are no saviors, no fixers -- you are either in sync with a "love vibe" or love, no matter who shows up, will pass on by
this is as true for me as anyone else . . . but, just like "prosperity" and "psychic ability", the trick is being in the right "space"
work on yourself and everything else will fall "in line"